Is it a fact? Do we have to face the fact?

Ever heard of the saying, if its meant to be yours it will be? Sometimes, I really choose not to believe in this statement. This is applicable in the BGR I'm having problems with. Is it really not meant to be? I really wish she could be mine, for we have so much in common. I know in life, we can't force things, but, why is it that I see some ppl getting into a relationship so easily?
I don't want to give up on her, I just hoping, one day, she'll give me this chance to express my feelings and love for her. It may sound that I'm begging, but I personally feel that she's the one. The only thing I'm intending to do now, to continue chasing after her, but not to put in too much effort into it and maybe, hoping that the right one steps into my life. I want to go against the fact and I will face it bravely at all cause!!!!!!!!!!!! I want to win this battle, and I do hope I can, but I must tell myselfm, if all fails, I must face the consequences of falling deep. I hope I'm making the right choice.